在数据库表1中，在invite_user_id有数值，type 等于1和status等于3的情况下，将actual_commission_balance的值修改为commission_balance，将commission_status的值修改为2，然后在将actual_commission_balance传送到数据库表二中id等于invite_user_id的balance中，

SQL语句如下：

UPDATE table1 SET actual_commission_balance = commission_balance, commission_status = 2 WHERE invite_user_id IS NOT NULL AND type = 1 AND status = 3;

UPDATE table2 SET balance = (SELECT actual_commission_balance FROM table1 WHERE invite_user_id = table2.id) WHERE id IN (SELECT invite_user_id FROM table1 WHERE invite_user_id = table2.id);

注：需要根据实际的表名和字段名进行修改。