Am I the A-hole for Refusing to Bend Newborn Visit Rules for My Sister-in-Law?

Am I the asshole for refusing to bend the rules on seeing my newborn just for one person, my sister-in-law, even if it's the only chance she has to see him for months? \n\nSo, here's the situation: I gave birth on Christmas Day, and to minimize visits and ensure the safety of our baby, my husband and I made a list of rules back in October and sent it out to everyone. We thought they were pretty straightforward and reasonable, but apparently, not everyone agrees. \n\nSome of the rules include being up to date on all vaccines, not visiting if you feel sick in any way (which is just common sense), letting us know a week beforehand so we can arrange a convenient time for you to visit, no smokers, no phone calls or visits between 7:30 PM to 10 PM, only staying for one hour, not picking up the baby without our consent, no unsolicited advice, no wearing perfume or deodorant (babies have sensitive noses, people!), and absolutely no taking or posting pictures on social media without our permission. \n\nAnd here's the kicker: if you visit for the first time, you're expected to bring a gift for the mom (aka me) in the form of a gift card. Now, I know some people might find this last rule a bit controversial, but let's be real here - giving birth is no walk in the park, and a small token of appreciation would be nice. \n\nSo, am I being unreasonable for sticking to these rules and not making any exceptions for my sister-in-law, even if it means she won't be able to see the baby for months? I'll let you be the judge of that. Comment below and let me know your thoughts!