Modern Western Wedding Traditions: A Shift From Fighting to Partnership

I want to change the idea of the groom fighting to marry the bride to a modern western version.

In modern Western cultures, the idea of a groom fighting to marry a bride is not acceptable. Instead, the groom typically proposes to the bride with a ring and they plan a wedding together. The wedding ceremony is a celebration of love and commitment between two equal partners. The groom does not have to prove his worth or fight for the bride's hand in marriage. Instead, they work together to build a life and a future together.