Confucius on Filial Piety: Balancing Personal Goals with Family Responsibilities

This quote is from the 'Book of Rites' chapter of the Analects of Confucius. Confucius emphasized the importance of filial piety and respect for parents, but he did not oppose a person going out to strive for their goals. 'Fang' can mean both 'destination/direction' and 'method'. The meaning of this quote is that while parents are alive, if you go out, you should let them know where you are going and ensure their safety. If your parents need care, you must arrange a way to take care of them while pursuing your own goals. Confucius was teaching how to be filial. A filial child must not increase their parents' worries. Whether you go far or not, always consider your parents and do not neglect them because of distance, nor slack off because of travel. In today's society, with advanced transportation, more and more people choose to work or study away from home. Confucius' words remind people to not neglect their responsibilities in the family while pursuing personal development, to cherish and care for their family, pay attention to their needs and situations, and spend time with them as much as possible.