My grandmothers duodenal tumor has worsened and now the pylorus is blocked and the doctor recommends surgeryThis is the reply from my aunt who has been taking care of my grandmother I know she doesnt

I can understand how difficult and frustrating this situation must be for you and your grandmother. It's never easy to make decisions about medical procedures, especially when they go against someone's wishes. However, it's important to remember that the goal of this surgery is to improve your grandmother's quality of life and prolong it as much as possible. The doctors are recommending it because they believe it's the best course of action to help your grandmother feel better and prevent further complications. I know this is a tough time for your family, but please know that you're not alone and there are many resources available to support you.