请用英语翻译下列篇章在我们前面提到的几种家庭倾向中普遍缺乏一种对孩子自我感的基本支持。过分的控制破坏了孩子可以独立生存、独立选择和自己规划人生的自我感。一个专注于成就的家庭透过表现来看待孩子这会让孩子处在一个不安全的境地。过度赞扬会让孩子产生一种不现实的全能感——我可以做任何事情!因为父母不去帮助孩子容忍失败和接受现实。相反一个很少受到称赞的孩子或者一个经常受到批评的孩子可能会一直认为他除了令人失

In the various family tendencies mentioned earlier, there is a general lack of fundamental support for children's self-esteem. Excessive control undermines children's sense of self, independence, and ability to plan their own lives. An achievement-focused family tends to view children based on their performance, which can make children feel unsafe. Excessive praise can create an unrealistic sense of omnipotence in children - "I can do anything!" - because parents fail to help them tolerate failure and accept reality. Conversely, a child who receives little praise or is frequently criticized may believe that they are incapable of achieving anything - "I am worthless!" When personality traits are ignored and only achievements are emphasized, children cannot develop a broad self-image. In many families of procrastinators, some humane qualities are often overlooked or underestimated, such as a sense of humor, the ability to make friends, enthusiastic hobbies or creative talents, willpower to put in great effort, and empathy.