Not when I have to bet parent to my own mom and baby brother that is already 30 years old

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It can be challenging and overwhelming to have to take on the role of a parent to your own mother and older sibling. It's important to remember that you can only do your best and seek support from other family members, friends, or even professional resources if necessary. It may also be helpful to have open and honest conversations with your mother and brother about their needs and how you can provide the support they require while also taking care of yourself